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To birth or not to birth…

cheap Robaxin That is the REAL question!

http://conradwinter.com/process/ Where do I even begin?! My mother keeps asking me when I am planning to have kids. She tells me that I have to have at least one of my own because I tell her that I am open to adopting. My parents’ argument is that there will be no one to take care of me when I am old. 1) No one can assure me that my child will want to take care of my old ass when I’m 90 (if I make it to that age)! And will I even want to burden him/her with that responsibility??! 2) God forbid something happen to him/her throughout his/her life and I lose him/her? I think I would die from the pain! 3) Pregnancy is not easy and can be fatal for both the mother and child!! Do I need to keep going?

My dearest friend Kati and I came up with just a small list of PROS and CONS (see photo)! And on the PROS side, “they’ll take care of me” is questionable! Yes…. Kati is a mother of two and will always keep it real.

Everyone around me either has kids or is planning to have kids soon. I will be 34 in May of 2019 and I know that the best is yet to come. I have been on a personal journey the last few years and still think I can grow as a person and build my empire. I have been single for about five years now but am open to the idea of letting someone into my world 🙂

I want to end this by saying that I admire all my friends who have kids and I want to give all the mamas out there a shoutout because being a mom is a the toughest job a woman will ever have. I nanny on weekends and see it firsthand. I love kids and ABSOLUTELY FUCKING ADORE all the kids who are in my life. Plus, I am a kid magnet!!!! Will I have any of my own? Maybe some day! At the moment I am living life, discovering myself, and making sure I have no regrets when settling down. I can do anything and everything with my life and I intend to do so for as long as I can. CARPE DIEM!!!

Hasta luego chicas!
Besos

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